Don’t Overburdened your Child: Your Daughter should be allowed to enjoy their Childhood…school Work and Studies
Children should be allowed to enjoy their Childhood instead of being overburdened by school Work and Studies.
By: Promod & Vijay Batra
Children should be allowed to enjoy their Childhood instead of being overburdened by school Work and Studies.
Sometimes, Daughters have an awkward Relationship with their Fathers. They enjoy an easy, relaxed relationship with their Mothers usually but have a difficult time communicating with fathers. Ensure, therefore that you have a two-way communication with your Daughter. It is hard to accomplish but not impossible. Let her have the Confidence that you are always there for her. There are certain aspects of Life that she would like to talk over with you, and not with her mother. Be there for her on such vital occasions.
Times are Changing, now a days, Fathers play a role similar to Mothers in bringing up their Children.
Your Daughter is always looking at you, with ears and eyes. Don’t let her years fool you. She is definitely more tuned to you than you can imagine. Honesty, loyalty, sincerity, good manners, polite language- all these things she learns from you. Lead an exemplary life for her sake.
A Father has a Great role to play in conditioning his Son. It requires tremendous amounts of self control, Patience and the Wisdom to do things that might seem Cruel but are, in fact, necessary. The Father has be the iron hand in the velvet glove- especially so because Mothers tend to pamper the Son’s every Wish.
Life is all about making and taking Decisions- when we get up, what to wear, what to eat and so on. Many of us, when we overprotect our Daughters, are in fact harming them. Mothers have to take a decision as to when to give, how much to give freedom or money to their daughters. There is no one way or easy way. It has to be seen in totality.
A Daughter who grows up watching her mother scream at the Servant or throw things in a fit of rage, will do the same when she grows up.
No one succeeds all by himself. His family, parents and wife form the backbone to success.
Gently expose your Daughter to the fact that she can have the Joy of Role Excellence as a Wife, a Mother, a Daughter-in-law. I have often found more Smiling and radiant faces among such women than among those who have Successfully gone up the professional Ladder.
Sometimes, one has to stick one’s neck out. Teach your Son the basic rules of survival in a cut- throat world.
You can’t Change Anyone. You can’t Change your Father, Your Mother, your Wife, your Brother, your Sister- not even your Boss! Change yourself first. And you cant change your Son, but you can certainly Train Him.
My Daughters Respect me , they also Respect their Mother because I Respect her. Because I Respect myself I Respect her. I Have realized that I do not have to wait for her to do great things before i respect her, i can start respecting her by looking for small, small things she does greatly.